Before I started going out with my girlfriend, I bought a prostate massager. She later brought up male g spot orgasms, but we were still pretty new, so I just pretended to be surprised about it. Eventually I let her use my toy on me, but I wanted more, so I brought up pegging and having her fuck me, and she enthusiastically agreed! We immediately bought a purple Fun Factory Share, and we love it, and she's getting good at it too! Now, I just have to get her to take pictures with it... Any tips?

Congrats on getting your wife to peg you…it’s so much hotter when your partner is as into it as you are!  Pictures can be tricky…women can be very hard on themselves when it comes to being naked.  The key is making her feel confident and sexy.  You could start by buying her some sexy lingerie to wear to cover any areas she feels self conscious about.  The other thing you can do is agree to only photograph from certain angles and let her have final say on what she wants deleted.  If your long term goal is a couple’s pegging blog where you share your pics, show her some that you follow and let her see how positively people respond to them.  Hope this helps…good luck darling! :) 
 
 
We are looking for a double penetration strap on for me to fuck her with. Recommendations?


Here are some options for you to wear to double penetrate her:

Dual Penetrator

These you would wear alongside your cock to fill both her holes.

Double Penetrator Strapon

These are hollow ones that you wear over your cock to double penetrate her.


 

Hollow Strapons

12/04/2014

 
Here's one you probably don't get often - On occasion I do have partners that like it "bigger" and I can't really do more than what I was born with in length and girth as far as penetration goes; do You have or know any good links to people who can fabricate hollow strap-on and harnesses in a 36"-38" waist range?

I’m not aware of any place that makes hollow strapons but my BBGL Toy Store has a bunch ready made for that waist size.  Below is a link to hollow strapons filtered by waist size 36” up to the maximum 70”.  If you want to adjust the search results by a different waist size scan down near the bottom in the left hand column for the waist size criteria.  Let me know if you have any questions about any of them.  I own this one but it fits a very tiny waist size and is a bit tight on my frame even though it says it fits up to 48”.  Good luck with your search! :) xoxoxo

Hollow Strapons


 
 
Why do you love pegging so much? I want to be pegged but my woman isn't into it. Maybe she would be if she benefited from it...

First off…that’s like saying I wish she’d suck my dick but she doesn’t benefit from it.  Since when is pleasure not about giving?  There are lots of activities that couples do together where pleasure is taken in turns.  She needs to look at it as foreplay leading up to when you both fuck.  Who says you need to finish while she is fucking you?  Me and my guy always finish with sex…my clit loves pounding away at him and by the time we fuck I cum super hard and so does he.  Lots of women can cum while fucking a man’s ass…there are vibrating girlcocks and ones worn inside her pussy so you can tell her NO EXCUSES :) xoxoxo
 
 
How do I get my fiancé to play with my ass?

She needs to know its pleasurable for you for starters. Next time she’s licking your balls, move your hips up. When she hits your taint (prostate from the outside) moan and say, “oh fuck baby that feels good!” If she sticks around and works that area over, make a big deal over how hot it makes you. Tell her you bet it feels ever better from the inside and see if she goes for it. If you can get her fingers or tongue to play with your asshole…you’re in the home stretch! Good luck hon ;) xoxoxo
 
 
You seem to be so comfortable with this idea and seem to help a few people out on here. I was hoping you would be able to help me with idea of bringing the subject of pegging up with my wife….I only ask cause of the dramas I caused a few years ago when she found out (after no prior knowledge) that I’m Bi and had been sending pics (you can use your imagination as to what they contained) to an old fuck of mine. Not only that but I have started anal play by myself just recently and I would really like to have her provide me that pleasure I just don’t know how to ask…….more to the point a little scared to ask.

Well there are ways you can be subtle about it, rather then blurting out that you want her to strap a cock on and fuck your ass.  It also depends how open your communication in the bedroom is.  If you are comfortable with it, let her know how much you love when her fingers brush your taint when has her fingers down there…or better yet her mouth.  If she is sucking or licking your balls, you can tilt your hips up and when her tongue slides down be verbal (moaning) and let her know there is a new pleasure zone she may be neglecting.  Same with fingers, if she is rubbing your taint, work your hips so that her fingers inevitable graze your asshole.  Again be verbal, like she just did the best thing in the world.  If you are feeling a bit forward and know she is in her kinky zone, grab her fingers and drag them lower, working them against your hole.  Tell her how fucking good that feels.  Once she is comfortable with playing with your ass from the outside, encourage her to work a finger in.  Tell her you’ve heard how hard guys can cum with their prostates stimulated and want to give it a try.  Once she is comfortable fingering or rimming your ass…then you suggest a toy (perhaps in your case not cock shaped right away).  You want this to be about you and her and exploring new pleasure…not a chance for you to get something cock shaped in your ass.  If she goes for a toy…show her some intimate pics of loving couples fucking with a strapon (tons on my strapon page) and ask her if she’d ever want to experience that with you.  I hope she is open to it hon…good luck! :) xoxoxo  

Also check out this great link: http://peggingparadise.com/blog/2012/03/convincing-her-to-try-it/
 
 
I know this may sound like an odd topic, but I had to share this, as I think it’s life changing. I’m not one for forums and keeping up with replies, etc. So I thought I’d let you post this if you saw value in it.

I really enjoy pegging and anal stimulation. I love to be pegged, or stimulate myself. My wife loves to watch me ride a dildo while she masturbates and we talk dirty. But the trouble with anal sex is often two fold: cleanliness and comfort. Often, the concern is am I clean enough to feel comfortable, and did I work so hard cleaning myself that I’m not able to use anything?

Regular toilet paper can leave me raw, to be blunt. I had taken to using moist wipes, but even then, I had to be careful because I may have sensitivities to some brands, etc. On a trip to Japan, I was exposed to the world of bidets. The Japanese are so fastidiously clean that they have bidets installed everywhere, including public toilets! I have never felt so comfortable following a trip to the loo in my life!

When I returned to the states, I began searching for how I could add a bidet to my bathroom. I found my answer on woot.com of all places. They had a one day sale of a bidet and I took a chance.

I purchased a bidet from a company called LuxeBidet (luxebidet.com). They have a few different models, the one I purchased is the NEO320.

It mounts under the toilet seat and has a control lever to the side. This model included a hot water connection, so I could have warm water instead of just cold. (Very nice) I hooked it up in a few minutes and was instantly impressed. You can run the water before spraying yourself so that you have a comfortable temperature. It only takes a few moments to spray off what you normally wipe and just a blot of tissue to dry off.

It really restored confidence and comfort for me. I feel like playing with anal toys much more often and really enjoy it when we do.

I hope this helps others find a way to really open up with anal play and experience some of the intense pleasure I have.

Thanks so much for providing this awesome venue to explore things in. Love the site, the Tumblr blog and all you’re doing. Keep it up!

-K
GnarelyB

Thanks for the info darling!  Those of us who enjoy assplay and pegging can all relate to the fine balance between cleaning and not over-cleaning to the point that there is discomfort even before the toys are introduced.  It’s great to experiment and finally find something or a combination of things that does the trick for us.  I will definitely add this to my advice page under cleaning! :) xoxoxox


 
 
My long distance girlfriend is re-visiting Saturday. She's used a butt plug on me, and we've both enjoyed it. I've tried to talk her into doing me with a strap-on (I dislike the word 'pegging' for some reason, maybe because it doesn't sound loving), I think we would both love it. However, she doesn't want to because she thinks she's too overweight to do so. I disagree, but it is a delicate subject, obviously, and I'm not the kind of guy to force her. Do you have any advice, suggestions?

That’s great that she is open to assplay with you…definitely a good start!  I agree…pegging is a horrid word and takes all intimacy out of it.  I always think of a wooden peg in a round hole :P  Anyways, here are some thoughts on what might be behind her resistance if she has brought up her weight as an objection. 

1. Being on display while fucking you.  You may want to show her there are other positions that she can enjoy your ass in.  For instance, you can ride her girlcock…this puts the onus on you to be the active one.  Another is to have you on bent over the side of the bed and she can stand behind.  These may help ease her into it until she finds her confidence.

2. Strapons not fitting. - I am not sure of her size but if this is a concern, there are several plus size strapons that will adjust to fit any body size.  Here are a few:

Fantasy Fetish Plus Size Strapon

Divine Diva Strapon

3. Thinking it’s only for stick models.  She may benefit from you showing her a few pegging blogs where she can see real life bigger girls rocking their girlcocks.  Here is a great blog below that may boost her confidence:

http://straponbeautys.tumblr.com/archive

Other than that, just encourage her to play with your ass more…perhaps she can manually fuck it with a dildo to see how hot it gets you! :) xoxoxo

 
 
Do you have any tips for anal masturbation for men? :3

I could tell you what I would do if I were a man :)

First I would then experiment to see what I liked the best.  I would start with my fingers.  I’ve seen some pretty hot gif’s of guys fingering their asses while jerking off and it’s a quick way to know if you like penetration/prostate stimulation. 

Best Positions For Prostate Stimulation

I’d take some lube and rub it around my asshole…perhaps using the other hand to rub my taint (your prostate from the outside).  I’m a visual person and love doing this in front of a mirror.  Massage it slowly.  Warming up the area can feel amazing and will make penetration easier.  When I couldn’t take it anymore I would work a well-lubed finger in just to the knuckle, crooking it towards my balls.  (Your prostate is approximately 2 inches inside and is described at as chestnut sized bump).  Some guys like a gentle thrusting motion and others prefer intense constant pressure.  So I’d play around with the different stimulation to see what felt the hottest for me.  Once I got comfortable and masturbated with some anal stimulation a few times I’d move onto toys.  Here are some different types to experiment with. 

1. Anal prostate toys
2. Suctioning dildos
3. Anal beads
Vibes
5. Plugs


All men should explore their asses in my opinion…whether it’s solo or with a partner.  The male s-spot could be an untapped wealth of pleasure that you never knew you even had.  Many men find that after some exploratory prostate play they are open to pegging.  I love all types of anal toys as a woman so I can just imagine what it would be like with the addition of a g-spot to my ass!  So men, if you haven’t before…try it!  Ladies…encourage your men to try it too!  :) xoxoxo


 
 
Right now, I can only dream. But would you help explain to me: What does this Taste like?

Ass taste like hot musky skin…so many textures…smooth, wrinkly, hairy….masculine.  There is no taste that explodes over your tongue like diving into a wet pussy or cock head.  It’s earthy, a little bit salty…and more a combination of smell and just knowing you have your tongue in his most intimate place.  One hand on his cock, your tongue controlling all of the little grunts and moans as he pushes back on you…it’s the whole experience that will make you addicted to it. For fun you can swipe drops of his precum and paint his asshole with it before licking it off…that is a fucking hot combinations of taste!! ;)